Mismatched Desire: Why One of You Wants It More (And What To Do About It)

by laeni_admin | Mar 17, 2026 | Communication, Intimacy, Relationship skills

Mismatched Desire: Why one of you wants It more (And what to do about It) There is a question almost every couple Googles at some point, usually late at night and quietly: Is it normal that we do not want sex at the same time or as often anymore? It feels like...

Pleasure Is Not A Competition: Why Ranking Orgasms Is Ruining Your Experience

by laeni_admin | Mar 17, 2026 | Intimacy, Relationship skills

Pleasure Is Not A Competition: Why Ranking Orgasms Is Ruining Your Experience Somewhere along the way, we started treating pleasure like something to measure. We talk about different kinds of orgasms, compare experiences, and subtly rank them as if some are more valid...

Spillover: When life’s resentments end up in the bedroom

by laeni_admin | Jan 28, 2026 | Relationship skills, Communication, Intimacy

Spillover: When life’s resentments end up in the bedroom “When resentment has nowhere to go, it often ends up in the bedroom.” –  Ask Nicki  One of the most common things I see in long-term couples is this: the bedroom carrying the weight of everything else. ...

The hidden influence of social sexual behaviour at work

by laeni_admin | Jan 28, 2026 | Wellness in the Wordplace, Consent

The hidden influence of social sexual behaviour at work “It’s not the presence of sexuality that causes harm, it’s the absence of consent and clarity.” –  Ask Nicki  Workplaces often treat any hint of sexuality as inherently dangerous. But human beings don’t...

From bedroom to boardroom: Why consent is a life skill

by laeni_admin | Jan 28, 2026 | Consent, Wellness in the Wordplace

From bedroom to boardroom: Why consent is a life skill “If we can practise consent in our most intimate spaces, we become far more capable of practising it everywhere else.” –  Ask Nicki  Consent is often spoken about as if it belongs only in the bedroom and...