“Will it be awkward?” What actually happens when I speak to your team about intimacy
“The fear isn’t the topic. The fear is the awkwardness. So let me take that off the table.” – Ask NickiWhenever a company considers bringing me in to speak, there’s usually one unspoken question hovering in the room.Won’t it be awkward?It’s a fair question, and I’d...
From the courtroom to the bedroom: Why I left law to talk about sex
“I spent twenty years advocating for people in courtrooms. Now I advocate for something just as important, their right to a connected, joyful intimate life.” – Ask NickiPeople are always a little surprised when they hear what I used to do.For more than twenty years, I...
The hidden influence of social sexual behaviour at work
The hidden influence of social sexual behaviour at work “It’s not the presence of sexuality that causes harm, it’s the absence of consent and clarity.” – Ask Nicki Workplaces often treat any hint of sexuality as inherently dangerous. But human beings don’t...
From bedroom to boardroom: Why consent is a life skill
From bedroom to boardroom: Why consent is a life skill “If we can practise consent in our most intimate spaces, we become far more capable of practising it everywhere else.” – Ask Nicki Consent is often spoken about as if it belongs only in the bedroom and...