Mismatched Desire: Why One of You Wants It More (And What To Do About It)
Mismatched Desire: Why one of you wants It more (And what to do about It) There is a question almost every couple Googles at some point, usually late at night and quietly: Is it normal that we do not want sex at the same time or as often anymore? It feels like...
Pleasure Is Not A Competition: Why Ranking Orgasms Is Ruining Your Experience
Pleasure Is Not A Competition: Why Ranking Orgasms Is Ruining Your Experience Somewhere along the way, we started treating pleasure like something to measure. We talk about different kinds of orgasms, compare experiences, and subtly rank them as if some are more valid...
Spillover: When life’s resentments end up in the bedroom
Spillover: When life’s resentments end up in the bedroom “When resentment has nowhere to go, it often ends up in the bedroom.” – Ask Nicki One of the most common things I see in long-term couples is this: the bedroom carrying the weight of everything else. ...
Sexual self-love: Why exploring your own body is self-care, not shame
Sexual self-love: Why exploring your own body is self-care, not shame Most people grow up receiving two very mixed messages: sex is natural, and exploring your own body is something you should avoid, hide, or feel guilty about. Let me be clear, self-pleasure is one...