Professional sex coach
Hi, I’m Nicki and I’m a professional sex coach.
As a dedicated sex coach, I am deeply committed to helping individuals and couples navigate the intricate landscape of intimacy and desire. With a background as an attorney specialising in personal injury law, I embarked on a transformative journey to pursue my true calling in the realm of human connection and sexuality.
My journey has been marked by a fervent desire to empower others to embrace their sexuality, communicate openly, and cultivate fulfilling relationships. From leading dynamic workshops to offering personalised coaching sessions, I am honoured to guide my clients on transformative journeys toward greater intimacy, satisfaction and pleasure.
With a focus on topics such as bridging the orgasm gap, reigniting passion in long-term relationships, and how to be succsexfully satisfied, I offer a holistic approach that prioritises compassion, empathy, and inclusivity. My goal is to create a safe and nurturing space where individuals and couples can explore their desires and discover new pathways to connection and fulfilment.
Whether I’m working with corporate teams, leading workshops for individuals and couples, or providing one-on-one coaching sessions, I am dedicated to tailoring my approach to meet the unique needs and goals of each client. Through my engaging and compassionate guidance, I strive to empower others to embrace their sexuality, deepen their connections, and experience the transformative power of authentic intimacy.
Join me on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment as we unlock the secrets to a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life together.
Hi, I’m Nicki and I’m a professional sex coach.
As a dedicated sex coach, I am deeply committed to helping individuals and couples navigate the intricate landscape of intimacy and desire. With a background as an attorney specialising in personal injury law, I embarked on a transformative journey to pursue my true calling in the realm of human connection and sexuality.
My journey has been marked by a fervent desire to empower others to embrace their sexuality, communicate openly, and cultivate fulfilling relationships. From leading dynamic workshops to offering personalised coaching sessions, I am honoured to guide my clients on transformative journeys toward greater intimacy, satisfaction and pleasure.
With a focus on topics such as bridging the orgasm gap, reigniting passion in long-term relationships, and how to be succsexfully satisfied, I offer a holistic approach that prioritises compassion, empathy, and inclusivity. My goal is to create a safe and nurturing space where individuals and couples can explore their desires and discover new pathways to connection and fulfilment.
Whether I’m working with corporate teams, leading workshops for individuals and couples, or providing one-on-one coaching sessions, I am dedicated to tailoring my approach to meet the unique needs and goals of each client. Through my engaging and compassionate guidance, I strive to empower others to embrace their sexuality, deepen their connections, and experience the transformative power of authentic intimacy.
Join me on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment as we unlock the secrets to a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life together.
About Me.
I am a qualified Integral Practitioner Coach through the globally accredited Integral Africa Coaching Centre.
(www.thecoachingcentre.co.za/)
I’m a qualified attorney at law (BA, LLB, Wits) and founder of Malcolm Lyons and Brivik Incorporated. Over twenty years of practice as an attorney has taught me not only how to secure client confidence and confidentiality, but also how to foster an ongoing relationship built on mutual trust and a common goal.
I am a member of COMENSA (Coaches and Mentors of South Africa) and an affiliate member of SASHA (South African Sexual Health Association).
What my clients say.
“Nicki has a gift for making sensitive topics feel comfortable to discuss. Her expertise allowed my partner and me to break down barriers and rediscover our connection. Our relationship is better now than it ever was before.”
“Nicki’s insights and advice revitalised our relationship. We’ve learned to communicate better in the bedroom, leading to a deeper emotional connection and renewed love. We have a deeper connection than ever before and behave like teenagers – so much fun – Thank you Nicki”
“I was skeptical at first, but Ask Nicki’s guidance has been life-changing. She helped us bridge the gap and reignite the passion in our relationship.”
“Nicki’s guidance transformed our sexual communication. Our once awkward conversations have turned into open, passionate discussions. Our relationship is stronger than ever and we continue to work on things every day.”
“We were on the brink of separation before we found Nicki. Her expertise saved our relationship by helping us understand each other’s needs and desires as well as improve our communication – now we listen to each other and talk more than we ever did before. Nicki has been life changing for us “
“Thanks to Nicki, my partner and I have a newfound sense of intimacy. Her strategies for better communication in the bedroom have made a world of difference.”
“Nicki transformed our relationship! Her guidance on communication in the bedroom helped us connect on a deeper level. We’ve never been happier.”
“I can’t thank Nicki enough. Her advice unlocked a world of understanding between me and my partner. We’re more connected, open, and satisfied.”
“After struggling for years, Nicki showed us how to address our intimacy issues. Now, our bond is stronger, and we’ve rediscovered joy in our relationship. Nicki you have a true talent and we are so grateful to have found you.
“Nicki’s expertise brought back the spark in our relationship. Her insights into our desires and effective communication techniques revitalised our love life to a whole new level that we never thought would be possible.”
“Within a few short hours, Nicki saved my marriage. Her advice was practical, insightful and appropriate. She honed in on the issues with both sensitivity and directness, dispelling any discomfort or awkwardness. I cannot recommend Nicki highly enough.”
Nicki was recommended to me by a friend who was herself training to become a coach. I entered the first coaching session without any specific expectations and tried to have an open mind. What became immediately clear, was that I really clicked well with Nicki. She radiated positive energy and open-minded enthusiasm. Over the course of eight sessions between August and November, my positive initial impressions were reinforced, as we navigated several facets on which I was looking for direction. I learnt a lot from her intuitive yet structured approach to improving self-knowledge, and we ended with useful actionable next steps. Nicki focuses not only on the what, but also the why. She examines the feelings and motivations behind the behaviour, which makes your journey with her so much more meaningful.”
Want to change your thinking, your behaviour, do something you have longed for but never quite reach, step up to something different or move away from something that no longer holds joy? Nicki makes a brilliant, enthusiastic, curious, and empathic thinking partner. She asks incisive questions and demands authentic answers. I was gently persuaded to find my own edge and then some. The coaching process was both expansive and serious. I left each coaching session reflective, but ready for action. As time unfolded between sessions, the changes that arose, were astonishing, in a very positive way. Reading her written feedback after each session further confirmed the actual experience of being witnessed, seen and understood. This is just one of Nicki’s potent gifts. Coaching with Nicki was consistently kind, shepherding me towards a better version of myself. It was a real pleasure to work so openly and freely, trusting the collaborative process and holding myself accountable and responsible for embodying the changes I wanted.”
